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Subject
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soft-skills
Instructions:
Answer 36 questions in 15 minutes.
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Match each statement with the correct term.
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This is a study tool. The 3 wrong answers for each question are randomly chosen from answers to other questions. So, you might find at times the answers obvious, but you will see it re-enforces your understanding as you take the test each time.
1. 'You have a reasonable right to tell me what to do and I feel compelled to do it.'
Negotiation
Reward power
Legitimate power
Self-reliance
2. Response to a realistic danger in past - present or future
Legitimate power
Self-reliance
Reactive jealousy
Reasons for being jealous
3. 1. Criticism - demanding; derogatory as far as recipient is concerned 2. Illegitimate demands - unjust demands - 3. Rebuffs - one person appeals for a desired reaction but the other person does nothing - 4. Cumulative annoyances - builds up over time
Instigating conflict
Betrayal
Causes of breakups
Self-reliance
4. Even if you make the most of daily decisions - if someone can overturn them - you don't really have that much power
Relational evaluation
Veto power
Referent power
Conflict skills & tips
5. 'If you do what I want - I will give you X.'
Betrayal
Reward power
Legitimate power
Mismatch
6. By changing your own behavior - you can influence the behavior of a partner E.g. romantic relationship
Self-bolstering
Veto power
Behavior control
Dialects
7. 'I love you - so I will do what you ask of me.'
Good liars
Referent power
Conflict skills & tips
Veto power
8. Say your side and work toward a common solution - Involves direct and indirect approaches as well
Catching a liar
Causes of breakups
Relationship maintenance strategies
Negotiation
9. A decision to give up your perceived or actual right to get even with or hold in debt someone who has wronged you - Secure attachments are more likely to forgive
Forgiveness
Veto power
Mismatch
Dialects
10. From a susrvey on causes of breakups - Autonomy 37% Similarity 30% Supportiveness 27% Openness 22% Fidelity 17% Togetherness 16% Equity 12%
Causes of breakups
Power strategies
Legitimate power
Attributional conflict
11. Being ignored; cold shoulder - Used to avoid confrontation or calm down after conflict - threatens need to belong - leaves people angry and in the dark
Ostracism
Key ingredients of forgiveness
Showing understanding skill
Mismatch
12. Giving a boost to one's self-esteem by doing something nice for oneself and thinking about one's good qualities
Self-bolstering
Reactive jealousy
Informational power
Self-reliance
13. A persona can unilaterally determine what will happen next E.g. parent-child relationship
Fate control
Behavior control
Social power
Power strategies
14. Involves efforts to 'stay cool' and avoid feeling angry or embarrassed by refusing to dwell on the unfairness of the situation
Self-reliance
Good liars
Key ingredients of forgiveness
Coercive power
15. Hurtful actions by people we trust - Involves relational devaluation - Most intense hurt from people we love - Loyalty to multiple people (sometimes occur when people have the best intentions)
Conflict
Betrayal
Self-bolstering
Mismatch
16. 1. Direct - ask for what you want (more satisfied people/men) 2. Indirect - hinting or pouting (not as satisfied/women) 3. Unilateral - work alone (less powerful/women) 4. Bilateral - work together (more powerful/men)
Power strategies
Veto power
Instigating conflict
Causes of breakups
17. Positivity - Openness - Assurances - Social network - Sharing tasks - Sharing activities - Support - Conflict management - Avoidance - Humor
Attributional conflict
Informational power
Veto power
Relationship maintenance strategies
18. Sincere apology and empathy from victim
Informational power
Legitimate power
Power strategies
Key ingredients of forgiveness
19. Acting constructively in the face of attack - Involves direct and indirect approaches as well
Accommodation
Referent power
Betrayal
Self-bolstering
20. Listen in a way that shows strong interest - Become the other person - Repeat the other person's partner's thoughts - feelings and concerns - Accept and make changes graciously
Relationship maintenance strategies
Betrayal
Showing understanding skill
Referent power
21. 'If you don't do what I want - I will punish you by X.'
Key ingredients of forgiveness
Conflict
Showing understanding skill
Coercive power
22. Liars tend to view their deception as less serious than the recipient - Self-serving bias
Mismatch
Self-reliance
Coercive power
Instigating conflict
23. We fluctuate in our pursuit of different goals (opposing motivations) Examples include: Autonomy vs. connection (wanting to be alone but want to be close) - Openness vs. closeness - Stability vs. change - Integration vs. separation
Relational devaluation
Causes of breakups
Conflict skills & tips
Dialects
24. The degree to which others consider their relationships with us to be valuable
Relational evaluation
Reward power
Conflict
Informational power
25. Occurs when someone's motives - goals - beliefs - opinions or behavior interfere with those of another - Preventing someone from doing/getting what they want
Legitimate power
Good liars
Conflict
Sources of Power
26. Apparent decreases in others' regard for us
Betrayal
Conflict skills & tips
Relational devaluation
Mismatch
27. 'You have info that I need or want - so I will do what you ask of me.'
Sources of Power
Relational devaluation
Informational power
Causes of breakups
28. Think before you speak - Start by remembering what's good - Speak from your own POV - Talk about your feelings - Ask for what you want - Avoid trigger words - Be specific
Reactive jealousy
Fate control
Expression skill
Relationship maintenance strategies
29. Be positive - Exercise gratitude - Don't have a conversation when you're angry - Be explicit about expectations - Avoid contempt (sarcasm and snarkiness) - Pick a neutral spot!
Conflict skills & tips
Relational evaluation
Negotiation
Sources of Power
30. The ability to influence the behavior of others and to resist their influence on us
Catching a liar
Attributional conflict
Betrayal
Social power
31. Fighting over whose account of an incident is right and whose is wrong
Coercive power
Betrayal
Power strategies
Attributional conflict
32. High social skills - Not much to lose - An unattractive target
Good liars
Relationship maintenance strategies
Self-bolstering
Self-reliance
33. When people lie to others - they perceive the recipient to be less trustworthy over time -'Everyone is like me - so you must be lying too.'
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34. It is reproductively advantageous to keep outsiders from the relationship
Reasons for being jealous
Key ingredients of forgiveness
Dialects
Self-reliance
35. Control of valuable resources - having a resource if other people want it - Principle of lesser interest (i.e. showing you have no interest) - You can get what you want elsewhere too
Referent power
Expression skill
Good liars
Sources of Power
36. Speak hesitantly - Higher pitch - Grammatical errors - Blink more often - Mismatch b/w facial expression and tone of voice - Know the person well
Catching a liar
Self-bolstering
Power strategies
Reasons for being jealous